By: Becky Smith
You get an offer from a company and you are glad…except you wish you had more time to decide!
Good news: It is normal – even common — to ask for time to think things over! It is just a matter of maintaining trust and using savvy communication skills.
It is strongly advised that you reply to an offer of employment within 24 hours.
- Be positive to maintain the confidence that the hiring manager has in you: Act excited. Thank the hiring manager or recruiter for offering the job to you.
Ask if you can have some time to think about it.
- You don’t have to say why; just say you need some time to consider all of the factors. In fact, the reasons why can sometimes make employers feel uncomfortable – it can come across wrong, and/or they are not prepared to be involved in your personal life.
Be sure to clearly communicate when you will get back to the employer with an answer, and keep your word no matter what.
- You may ask for up to a week to think about the offer.
- The company may need an answer sooner. Settle on a mutually convenient date.
This kind of negotiation is fair, given that they don’t want to lose other candidates while they are waiting to hear from you.
During the time you have negotiated, you may speak with your Co-op + Career Advisor, your faculty, your family, and other prospective employers. You may take some time to reflect on what you want and need (i.e., salary, start date, schedule).It is best to take your time to prepare if you are going to negotiate any of the terms of employment.
Be Aware of Common Misunderstandings:
Interviewing for a job does not mean committing to the job. Interviewing is exploration to determine whether you are a fit for the job…and whether the job and company are a fit for you.
If a co-op employer offers you an opportunity to return for a second co-op or a full-time job, you are not obligated to return. Be appreciative and respectfully consider the opportunity, but if it is not right for you, politely decline. Things are not going to turn out well for anyone if you accept a job that you know is wrong – including headaches for professionals with whom you’ve built relationships!
You do not need to accept the first job you are offered. You do need to reply to all offers within 24 hours.
For more information on how to navigate a situation in which you get an offer for one job but you’re really waiting to hear from another company, read our handout about Deliberating Job Offers.
As always we encourage you to stop by CO-OPS + CAREERS to discuss your co-op and job offer questions with any Co-op + Career Advisor. You can make an appointment in person at 101 Wentworth Hall or by calling 617-989-4101. Email us at firstname.lastname@example.org. We look forward to connecting with you soon!